I love to distress, rip, ink-up, tear, fold and splash my paper! But for me distressing or the "grungy" look doesn't mean your card has to be ugly colors or masculine! Check out my card ot has a dainty little flower spring on it! I love our gingham cocoa powder ribbon, especially on this card... it makes it look a little country and it dresses it up.
The color combo is all FSJ: Butter Cream, Oatmeal Cookie & Cool Pool! I think they are my favorite combo right now!